You‘re just oblivious
From Vantage Point:
D: I loved Sarah, Charles. It was mine, that love. I owned it. Even Sarah didn’t have the right to take it away. I can love whoever I want.
K: She thought you were pathetic.
D: That was her business, not mine. You are what you love, not what loves you. That’s what I decided a long time ago.
Awesome piece. I really do not know what Orchid Thief is, but I am keen to find out.