Aur batao!!
If you and your friends find each other saying these two words over the phone a frickin’ number of times then I am reasonably sure that both of you are working.
A good friend, who I do not know why I do not speak to that much, called up late last night and as we talked she told me how there was nothing much after office to do and that life had become so bore. I told her in a long discussion (perhaps the longest I have ever talked to her on phone I guess and otherwise) that she should find out something to do. Maybe read, write, travel and most importantly do something that interests her. The punga I think is with her organization where she does not get time for herself or to do things that she likes doing, and she being the hardworking girl she is, slogs off and that frustration builds up.
I know the sign and this feeling over comes to me every couple of months and I have to do something to get over it. I regualrly go visit friends (Tk and Bharathi essentially), make it a point to meet all friends who pass through Delhi, even if it is for half an hour, and every once in a while I make trips outside the city, Jaipur, Hyderabad, Dehradun etc.
What else can one do? Any suggestions??
Soumyadip 12:37 on Monday, March 12, 2007 Permalink |
‘Aur batao’ is one combination of words that I detest hearing from the other end of a telephonic conversation. It is so open-ended and vague that this query becoming boring to the extent of irritation.
Goyal 13:06 on Monday, March 12, 2007 Permalink |
Exactly. But then it becomes the only thing you have to say. Talk for some time and then these two words. Again a new thing. Talk about it, and then these two words. Arrgghhh.
Munal 1:06 on Wednesday, March 14, 2007 Permalink |
🙂 Anonymity
Actually I can relate to that friend of yours…I guess at times it also happens because of lack of nothing better to do….
On “Aur batao” its a great way to push the ball back in someone’s court…when you dont have enough to talk and dont want to hang up as well….
Goyal 10:15 on Wednesday, March 14, 2007 Permalink |
I think there is always something better to do!! If not find it out…
As for pushing the ball back in someone’s court, that should not happen between friends… I think friends always have something to talk about…
Munal 11:02 on Wednesday, March 14, 2007 Permalink |
It’s a genuninely interested “Aur batao” which I use 🙂
Goyal 11:04 on Wednesday, March 14, 2007 Permalink |
I know you ask with a genuine interest, but at times you get to hear it so many times in a day itself that it gets irritating!!
No offense meant.
Rahul 18:12 on Monday, March 26, 2007 Permalink |
Just got fixated on your “friends always have something to talk about”.. I’ve always considered people my friends when silence around them stops being uncomfortable 😀